How to Choose Your First Sex Toy

Marriage works and sex is among the things that should be delivered well for a marriage to last. If you are looking for ideas to spice up your marriage, I would recommend sex toys. Many people have negative feelings towards sex toys, but as long as they are used the right way, and your partner is okay, they make a great way to spice up things in the bedroom.


Research sounds so obvious but what kind of stimulation are you looking for? Did you know that no one can tell about your sexuality better than yourself? Touch yourself and find out the body parts where you feel most pleasure when touched. Understanding yourself will help you narrow down your options. If you want your sex life to improve as a couple, then you must start from knowing what you love and what you do not. Otherwise, sex toys will not help you.


Are you planning to use the sex toys alone or with your partner? This is an important consideration because there are sex toys designed for sole users and couples. For the best results, you must buy that which matches your needs. Some couples love to use individual sex toys while others prefer sharing. Another important point here is that you must involve your partner in decision making. You both must be comfortable with everything for it to work.


How much are you willing to spend? Discuss this with your partner irrespective of how much you are willing to spend to get a better sex life. Listen, it does not mean that you will get more pleasure if you buy a $200 sex toy. A cheaper toy might be more pleasurable than the most expensive.

For beginners, it is better to start off with cheap toys, which will help you discover what you like. After you are settled, you can now invest in what you are sure of. The thing with sex toys is that they won’t last long, but they will lead you to where you think you want to be.…