Remarkable Things to Try in Bed That Will Escalate the Fun
Even the best partnerships can experience this problem. Love begins as a flame before it becomes a steady fire. The heat in the bedroom may go out entirely if you don’t add fuel to the fire from time to time. Your husband now likes to sneak into the bathroom, take advantage of porn discounts and watch porn. In the beginning, the relationship was still interesting because you knew each other’s bodies, preferences, and personalities. It was easy to maintain the tension. This easy sexual bonding diminished as the couple stabilized, routines took hold, finances piled up, and/or children came into the picture. Today it isn’t easy to rekindle an old romance. Try one or more of these four ideas for couples you can try in bed tonight to shake things up.
Do Some Roleplay
Act out the story instead of imagining being there. The novelty of roleplaying can make you feel a little ridiculous. But it gives you a chance to experience personalities other than your own. Playing the role of a student or other submissive positions can be relaxing if you have a lot of responsibilities at work or home. As in roleplaying, you can use clothes and props for your sex life. Maybe you still have the plaid skirt you wore in Catholic school, or perhaps you always wanted your husband to wear a uniform. In roleplaying, you can do both.
Hand Over the Control
No, we are not talking about submission and domination. But there are many other reasons to love it. It can be exciting to figuratively hand over the vibrator remote control to your partner. He gets to decide the intensity and mode while you enjoy every second. There are a few options. With your favorite remote-controlled vibrator, there are several things to try. You can stay home and give him the keys. Or you can go to the movies or out to dinner with a pair of vibrating briefs that only your partner knows about.
Mark the Spot
The last recommendation on this list is a great way to show a new lover where and how to turn you on. Similar to rolling the sex dice, but with more control over your lover’s attention. Use body paint to make X-shaped marks where your man wants to kiss, peck, spank or grope you. When he is finished, he can lick the paint off if it is edible. If necessary, use eyeliner or a washable marker, but always put a towel underneath to protect the bedding. You can write it down or use other symbols to tell them what to do. Also, why not email them a picture of your side with the words “bite here” to keep their minds occupied during the day?
Research has shown that when a couple tries something new, it strengthens their bond and increases relationship satisfaction. It makes sense that experimenting in bed can have a similar effect. You discover more about each other, and you may laugh if the circumstances are not optimal. Trying new things can keep your sex life from becoming monotonous. If you have had problems with orgasm in the past, these new experiences can help you achieve it better or for the first time.
